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Thursday, May 23, 2013

The Bonobos!



This week we had the opportunity to go on our first field trip.  We went to the Bonobo Reserve!  Bonobos are cousins to the chimpanzees, and they are supposed to be the smartest animal and they have the closest DNA to humans.  


 

This is the nursery for the young orphan bonobos. Their parents were killed by illegal hunters for bush meat. There are two women who stay with the children bonobos all the time, just to hug them and play with them. They even discipline them when they are naughty. It was a little weird to see how much they were treated as having human needs and emotions. ; .  .
 

Many of them are in the “Wild” and we got to watch them play in their own habitat.




Now this is an ant bed!


 

On the drive home we stopped at an old, old, old bakery and bought hot bread.  Very interesting!

 


One of the best things of the day was being in the country where we saw the local people living their sweet African lives… carrying their loads… and bathing and washing in the river. 



 Life is Great in the Congo!

 
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Sunday, May 19, 2013


We are really here again!

Wahoo... It's been 3 days of our waiting for our internet to have a spurt of activity, and now I can write again. 

After a 26 hour trip from Salt Lake to Kinshasa, we arrived at 8:30 pm.  It took about an hour to get through customs and get our baggage.  A man by the name of Antoine met us and took us through the procedure.  Our mission president and his wife, the Jamesons, were at the airport with the Billings, who we are replacing in Kinshasa.  They were full of energy and information.  They brought us to our apartment and helped us settle in.  It was almost midnight by the time the Billings left us.  What great mentors these 2 couples are to us.  This is a photo of the Billings on our first field trip... to see the Bonobos (cousins to chimpanzees.)


Over the following 24 hours we were very welcomed by the four other couples serving here.  We have the Moons who are the humanitarian couple, the Bybees who are the church public relations couple, the Smiths who work in the mission office and the Billings who are the construction education couple.  The Billings are training us until June 3rd, and then they will move on to start the program in another mission in the South DRCongo.   Three of the couples have had us to dinner, one brought dinner in… and then we had a “Welcome to the Gates Dinner” on Tuesday night at the mission home.  The couples are very cheerful, dedicated and unselfish.  It is an honor to work with them. 

All of us, except the Jamesons, live in the American Aid Building.

  There are offices for all kinds of Non Profit organizations that are here in Africa to help in various ways.

  There is also a 9 story tower with about 2 apartments on each floor.  We are sometimes lazy and take the little elevator.

   On the top there is a BarBQ and table and chairs.  From the roof the view of the city and the river is fun.  We are in a one bedroom apartment until the Billings move on to their new assignment.  Then we will move into their much nicer, two bedroom apartment.  But ours is fine for now.    We have running water (hot and cold) and air conditioning.  We have electricity most of the time.  Our little kitchen has a strange pillar in the middle of it.

They build things like that here in the Congo. If you look in the sink you will see the white container that I always have in my sink.  It is a mixture of water and Clorox.  We have to soak all our vegetables, fruit, eggs, dishes, etc. to try to keep us from getting sick.     Our internet is very sporadic… and very, very, very slow.  However, we are grateful for it… and we got to see all 6 of our kid’s families on Skype on Mother’s Day.  Our floors all tile and we have huge windows which make it very bright and cheerful. 

Dad is a missionary again... He is ironing his white shirt for church.  Life is good! 

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Bonjour to the DRC! (Democratic Republic of the Congo)


May 9, 2013

Bonjour, Bonjour, Bonjour!!!

After 22 hours of “flying” and airport time… we are almost back to the Congo.  I want to give some background on this mission call before we arrive. 

We have been home from our last mission, in Pointe Noire in the country of the Republic of Congo, for 15 months.  Ed was retired for about 5 months and then decided to go back to work and build 2 more Pei Wei that he had taken advantage of the opportunity for more work.  We felt very driven to turn in our mission papers at the end of the year.  We considered waiting, but knew in our hearts that it was time to turn them in.  We received calls from the PEF (Perpetual Education Fund) department asking us if we would be willing to go to Kinshasa.  It sounded like a great assignment.  They said they would call us in a week and let us know what was happening. 

That week we also received a call from the church HR (human relations) department about being construction instructors.  We laughed because they didn’t seem to know that we had been to the Congo or that we had even turned in mission papers.  We assumed that this call was also a result of our submitting our papers.  A week later we received an email from the PEF, that we were being considered for 4 positions.  That made me happy, because I kept wondering if we were really needed at that time, or if we could hang around and play with our kids for a few more months.   Our call came in early February and we were called to serve in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC) Kinshasa as Construction Instructors and Advisors.  We were excited, because we felt it was something that we could do well, and because of Ed’s construction experiences, we could do it better than most.

Three months later, on Monday May 6th we had dinner with Whit & Kathy Clayton.  (Whit is in the Presidency of the Seventy of the entire church.) They told us that they had been in Kinshasa last fall (I think November) with Elder Holland.  They were visiting with the couple who started the construction program.  Their name is the Billings.  Brother Billings expressed concern that he would need to leave the area in a few months, to start the building program in the south of the DRC, and was concerned that the church find a replacement couple. They will leave the country in 9 months.   President Clayton told us that he immediately had the impression that we … Ed and Kriss Gates… were to be the replacement couple.  He laughingly told us that they had practically “ordered the office name plate and hung it on the door.”  Now everything makes sense.  We would have been called on this mission even if we had not submitted our mission application papers.  It was just a beautiful coincidence that we felt prompted that it was time to serve again. 

We have spent the past couple of months getting ready to leave the house and our family.  We have been blessed with good tenants to rent our home for 18 months.  Ed finished his 2 Pei Wei Restaurant jobs in Beverly Hills and Hollywood.  We spent a great week on the East Coast at the Outer Banks with our family in a big 12 bedroom home on the beach.   Even our Dad, Jim Bodell, was able to come with us.  We felt the sweet spirit of the Holy Ghost with us throughout our preparations to leave, and knew that the call was for the right assignment at the right time.  After gathering in Sat Lake this past weekend and having loving goodbye dinners with both of our siblings… “The stars were all aligned” and before we knew it, it was time to go.

Monday and Tuesday of this week we had the opportunity to train at the church offices with Pat Brearton and Ron Guymon.  Pat works in the offices of the church that design and build chapels.   She wrote the construction manual that we will be using, and is our contact with the church headquarters.  Ron Guymon works for the LDS Business College, who is the accredited institution that will grant the degrees for the students who pass the courses we will be teaching.  There will be a 9 month certificate, for those learning the construction trade.  Of these men, we will identify and choose the future leaders who will be able to get the 2 year degree and become trainers.  The goal is to have local leaders ready to teach this class by the time we leave in 18 months, and they won’t need a replacement for us.  

In our classes this week we discovered that this is a marvelous program that has been designed to:

1.      Change the lives of these great people by teaching them a trade that will allow them to become builders and teachers in the future.  The self-confidence and knowledge they will learn will be passed on to their posterity for generations to come. 

2.      Use these newly trained builders to help build the many chapels that are needed in this area, as the church is rapidly growing.  They will be employed and paid by the local contractors who will be building the chapels. 

As we trained on Monday and Tuesday we developed a great respect for this inspired pilot program.  If we are successful, the program will extend throughout many of the 3rd world countries, and bless the lives of members around the world.  In our training we were taught that this program will be taught with extremely high requirements for graduation… with the criteria for a degree being as strict as those attending school in the US. The president of LDS Business College came to meet and greet us at the end of the 2nd day.  He solemnly told us how grateful he, and the university and the church leaders are that we would use our talents to return to Africa and develop this inspired program.  It is a marvelous concept and we are honored to be worthy to be called to be a part of it in the pilot stages.