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Sunday, February 6, 2011
Visa
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Amy
Funny story, the first day I was here I went with Dad on an errand to pick up their new Visas. They were denied. Mom and Dad had asked for 1 year Visas to save money but they were denied. They need to apply for 3 month Visas. So right now I am legal but they are not so much.
Appels
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Amy
There are all these stands around that say Appels 50. When I say “all these” I mean hundreds…all over! The first day I saw them I thought they were fresh apple stands. Actually Appels in French is call. What they are selling are phone calls. You can go and use their cell phone and call someone. They have this as there are not phone lines to most of their phones. But I am not sure who they are calling as most people use these Appels to call…are they just calling other Appels?
Mom and Dad’s French
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Amy
Dad, doing pretty good – he can converse enough to do his job. He is very cute when he doesn’t know what the French word is so he says the American word with a French accent. It is so funny. He also knows enough to switch around what we normally say. For example, the sentence, "The concrete is busted." He said to our neighbor, "It's busted the concrete." He pronounced concrete with a french lilt at the end. This may not sound funny but I was halirous.
Mom, doing great! She studies a lot. She is so great to have her flash cards out any down time that she gets. She can understand a whole bunch! She can converse very well with limited words.
Day 6
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Amy
I woke up and went for the walk/run. We took a new route that sent us walking though the closest thing to the African jungle that I have seen. It was a very fun walk. I even did a few pushups with dad. After breakfast Dad and I went to run more errands. We got to go to the grand marche’. If I thought it was crowed on Wednesday, today was Packed…Packed…Packed! Body to body! We bought a souvenir for the rest of my family. Then we went to pick up the copies. I know these sound like quick errands, however, this took us almost 2 hours due to the crazy traffic and roads.
Then we went to the church for a baptism. It was supposed to start at 1:00. We started at 1:50. For those of you who know my Dad…he was going crazy, but in a patient missionary way. The baptism was beautiful. Again, I couldn’t understand a word of it but the spirit speaks all languages. Side Note: Africans don’t really shower or bathe here, they “bucket baths”. They are not used to going all the way under the water. In our Church we believe in baptism by immersion. We had 2 people getting baptized today.
The first was a gentleman who at least 6’4”. The Elder who got into the font with him is named Elder Oulai. He is so cute! He is about 4’6” or shorter. See photos. So put together, Cute Elder Oulai and all of his 4 ½ feet with the new bother who is very tall AND a man who quite possibly has never gone under water. Elder Oulai gave it 3 tries and could never get all of him underwater completely. Then we called in a designated hitter aka, a taller Elder. We finally got the job done.
Then it was time for the Sister to be baptized. She was the whitest African I ever saw. She thought that you had to go under repeatedly. I kept telling her “une, une.” Mom said she almost passed out. She went under the first time. When she got up she there was so much emotion mixed with the spirit she was positively glowing.
After the baptism Mom taught a Visiting Teaching lesson while Dad and I went to go get gasoil for the other Elder’s apartment.
Every Saturday the Elders teach English for free at the church. This is a great idea as people love it. Members and Non-Members alike attend. Today there was over 50 people. What a great idea!
Right now we are at a beautiful ocean side fancy restaurant. Mom and I ordered a fun crab appetizer.
Saturday, February 5, 2011
Marche'
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Amy
Day 5 – The Aeroport Day
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Amy




We started the day with French Toast with President and Sister Headlee. Soon after, Dad took them to the Airport (trip #1 to the Airport).
We then went to the Maternity Hospital to deliver a few of the blankets. The blankets that have been handmade have not yet arrived here. I had brought 6 that Carrie had given me when I saw here in CA; they were cute, cuddly and fuzzy. I had also brought 8 from my Bishop’s wife in Washington. When I told her where I was going she was so cute to want to send something with me. I told her about the blankets and she picked up some wonderful lightweight ones. We had printed out some letters that talked about our service project. We took our translator with us for this hospital visit. We went and talked to what was the doctor who was also like the hospital administrator. He was so happy. We had brought 12 total blankets and left 2 at home as we only had 12 of the service project letters. The doctor wanted to keep 2 to give to another guy to show what Mom and Dad are doing to get permission for Mom and Dad to pick up the blankets that are being shipped and not have to pay Customs on them. There were 11 Mom’s in the hospital. We then drove back home, got the other 2, went back to the hospital and gave them out to the mothers. These babies were soooooooooo darling. I just wanted to hold all of them. So cute! The Mom’s were so sweet and appreciative!

After the hospital we went to our “Fast Food” McDonalds. In the photo it looks much larger that what it is. More than ½ of the space was for a photo copy place. Lunch was very interesting. Mom got an omelet which was tasty, Dad got spaghetti which was also tasty, and I got the hamburger. The top bun was hard like a big crouton. The bottom was a bit soggy. The meat was ground beef but not in a patty. It was a great experience.
After lunch we did our street meeting. We met 2 of the Elders and passed out some Church brochures. It was very fun. Almost everyone took one. We passed out 100. During this time Dad went to the airport to drop off some paperwork and pick up the new Elders (trip #2 to the airport). The paper work Dad needed to drop off was he is trying to get an airport badge so he can take the Elders all the way to the gate. If you do not have a reservation, you usually cannot go inside. Sometimes with Mom and Dad’s missionary badges they let them go to the first area kind of like a bag check area.
When we ran out of our 100 brochures we called Dad to tell him to pick us up. The Elders plane was late. Dad left the airport and came and picked us up. Then we went back to the airport (trip #3). We were there for another hour waiting for the transfer Elders to arrive. During that time the other Elders that were companions to the Elders that were incoming, passed out another 75 brochures.
Finally, the newly transferred Elders arrived (their plane was 2 ½ hours late). The 3 new Elders were so great! One African and 2 American. They were so energetic and fun. We had all of them (now 5 Elders plus Mom, Dad and I) all get in the truck. We dropped off 2 Elders along the way and they caught a cab the rest of the way. Then we dropped off the other 3 Elders and picked up one who was going home. He was a cutie and a half. I would be honored if any of my girls married such a great man as he. We brought him back almost to the airport and realized that his passport was back in the safe and Mom and Dad’s house. We went back to the house, grabbed the passport and went back to the airport (Trip #4). On our way back to the airport we realized that we left both cell phones at home when we went to pick up the passport. We needed to call the expediter (a person who helps the Elders through customs, etc. They have the passes that Dad is trying to get). We had told the expediter to meet us there at 8:00. At 8:05 he hadn’t shown up. We needed to call him. Dad stayed with the Elder at the airport and Mom and I ran back home to get the phones then back to the airport (trip #5).
We called the expediter and he met them at the airport. We said good bye and good luck to this wonderful “Returning” Missionary.

Side note, when we returned to the airport for trip #4 the cute little shoe cleaner boys that had been there earlier, brought out their brochures from earlier in the day. They were so cute! Here is a photo of Dad letting one clean his shoes. They ask for what is equal to 20 cents. Dad talked him down to 10 cents then ended up paying him the full 20. Nice of you to pry that out Dad! In all seriousness, they are told, NOT to give out any hand outs. That causes them to become dependent on it and that is not what the church teaches.
Finally we returned home at 9:30 pm, had ham and eggs for dinner and went to bed.
Day 4
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Amy
I can’t believe it! Day 4 all ready. Today is what is considered P-Day. It is anything but a day off for Mom and Dad. 
It started with Dad going out and paying the Elders. We have 2 Elders being transferred tomorrow and one Elder going home.
Right now Mom and Dad preside over 8 Elders. When they first came there were 12. Right now there isn’t enough Young Men going into the field to send more. This is now my time to give my plug to righteous Young Men of the Church that may be reading this blog. YOU ARE NEEDED DESPERATELY! Be strong, Be righteous, and GO ON A MISSION because you are needed here!
Mom and Dad are kinda like Jr. Mission Presidents/Bishops. It is so far for the Mission Presidents to come here if needed. As we are in a very different country, they are needed more often than say a state side mission. For example, Mom and Dad need to be prepared if for some reason they need to evacuate quickly. And Mom and Dad need to also be prepared enough to help the Elders evacuate quickly. I am not meaning just if there was a natural disaster, but if there was an uprising. Think of Egypt today and think Liberia when Grandma and Grandpa were serving. If you are parents of these cute Elders that are severing here, rest assured they are in good hands with my Mom and Dad.
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This brings me to a question that a lot of state side people have asked, “Is it safe?” Yes. Keep in mind a couple of things. #1 Poverty is amuck. There are hungry people here that cannot find work and their “yard sale” is not being successful. Think if you will of Aladdin and Jean Valjean (from Les Mis). Both of these wonderful, strong, good, courageous men that were just trying to survive and help others survive. Yes, you might get robbed here. But you might get robbed in New York City. For crying out loud, the only time I have ever been robbed in Provo, UT. #2 Driving with my Dad is the scariest thing I do. That is when I feel the most scared for my life. Here are 2 photos taken from the drivers seat. Look how close they are. For REAL!
Back to our day: as Elders are leaving, Mom had to do a cleaning check. I know how these Elders feel. Elders…you have 6 Gates kids that know what you are going through. Mom called when we were about 15 minutes away. I told Mom and Dad that I bet right now they are yelling, “Quick Soeur Gates is almost here!” I joked with them when I got there and Mom was in the room checking their work, “I bet you all were going crazy when we called.” They all just laughed, but no one said No.
After paying the Elders and Mom doing her clean check, we ran a couple of errands. We went and picked up a painting that Mom had commissioned. The blue one with the ladies is one that Mom saw and loved. The other two are ones that she asked him to paint.
After our errands, Dad dropped Mom and me off at the house and Dad went to go pick up the Mission President. As one of the Elders is going home President Headlee needed to do a farewell interview. Mom and Dad met with the President and his wife while I took a little nap (I’m still a bit jet lagged and Mom and Dad wear me out!)
The Elders all come over for dinner and games or a movie every P-Day. Mom cooks an American dinner for them. We had pork chops, rice and American Jello. I am not a huge Jello fan but the Elders were. This was one of the items that I had brought from America.


We had Tiffany’s chocolate chip cookies for dessert and a lemon cake. The lemon cake came from a box mix that was bought here in Pointe Noire for about $7. Food is pretty expensive here except for the loaf of fresh bread which is about 20 cents.
We had a great time chatting with the Elders at dinner. After dinner we played gestures. The cutest was to see the African elders play with these American words. They were so darling and very funny. The photos don’t do it justice.
At the end of P-Day we were so exhausted! Mom had been cooking and Dad with his errands. We watched a MASH and fell asleep.
It started with Dad going out and paying the Elders. We have 2 Elders being transferred tomorrow and one Elder going home.
Right now Mom and Dad preside over 8 Elders. When they first came there were 12. Right now there isn’t enough Young Men going into the field to send more. This is now my time to give my plug to righteous Young Men of the Church that may be reading this blog. YOU ARE NEEDED DESPERATELY! Be strong, Be righteous, and GO ON A MISSION because you are needed here!
Mom and Dad are kinda like Jr. Mission Presidents/Bishops. It is so far for the Mission Presidents to come here if needed. As we are in a very different country, they are needed more often than say a state side mission. For example, Mom and Dad need to be prepared if for some reason they need to evacuate quickly. And Mom and Dad need to also be prepared enough to help the Elders evacuate quickly. I am not meaning just if there was a natural disaster, but if there was an uprising. Think of Egypt today and think Liberia when Grandma and Grandpa were serving. If you are parents of these cute Elders that are severing here, rest assured they are in good hands with my Mom and Dad.
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This brings me to a question that a lot of state side people have asked, “Is it safe?” Yes. Keep in mind a couple of things. #1 Poverty is amuck. There are hungry people here that cannot find work and their “yard sale” is not being successful. Think if you will of Aladdin and Jean Valjean (from Les Mis). Both of these wonderful, strong, good, courageous men that were just trying to survive and help others survive. Yes, you might get robbed here. But you might get robbed in New York City. For crying out loud, the only time I have ever been robbed in Provo, UT. #2 Driving with my Dad is the scariest thing I do. That is when I feel the most scared for my life. Here are 2 photos taken from the drivers seat. Look how close they are. For REAL!
Back to our day: as Elders are leaving, Mom had to do a cleaning check. I know how these Elders feel. Elders…you have 6 Gates kids that know what you are going through. Mom called when we were about 15 minutes away. I told Mom and Dad that I bet right now they are yelling, “Quick Soeur Gates is almost here!” I joked with them when I got there and Mom was in the room checking their work, “I bet you all were going crazy when we called.” They all just laughed, but no one said No.
After paying the Elders and Mom doing her clean check, we ran a couple of errands. We went and picked up a painting that Mom had commissioned. The blue one with the ladies is one that Mom saw and loved. The other two are ones that she asked him to paint.
After our errands, Dad dropped Mom and me off at the house and Dad went to go pick up the Mission President. As one of the Elders is going home President Headlee needed to do a farewell interview. Mom and Dad met with the President and his wife while I took a little nap (I’m still a bit jet lagged and Mom and Dad wear me out!)
The Elders all come over for dinner and games or a movie every P-Day. Mom cooks an American dinner for them. We had pork chops, rice and American Jello. I am not a huge Jello fan but the Elders were. This was one of the items that I had brought from America.
We had Tiffany’s chocolate chip cookies for dessert and a lemon cake. The lemon cake came from a box mix that was bought here in Pointe Noire for about $7. Food is pretty expensive here except for the loaf of fresh bread which is about 20 cents.
We had a great time chatting with the Elders at dinner. After dinner we played gestures. The cutest was to see the African elders play with these American words. They were so darling and very funny. The photos don’t do it justice.
At the end of P-Day we were so exhausted! Mom had been cooking and Dad with his errands. We watched a MASH and fell asleep.
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Day 3
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Amy
I was able to wake up early enough to go on the “walk”. Now our Mom and Dad have been very healthy for as long as I remember going on almost daily walks. Dad no longer “walks” he runs! He says that when he comes home he wants to run a marathon. Mitzi, he said that you are going to send him a training schedule. They do their walk/run on the beach. This was a beautiful beach. It wasn’t as aqua colored as the Caribbean beaches, but still bluer than So. Cal. The waves were beautiful and long. As we are almost on the Equator, the waves come straight in, unlike CA where they come in at an angle. I had to jump in as it was too beautiful to pass up. The water was so warm! It was after I got in and we were walking back to the car that Mom told me a story of a member family that their older son went to the beach one day and never returned. They don’t know if it was from drowning or being attacked on the beach. See Mom's post for photos and video.
After the beach we went home and showered for the day. Today was pay day or soutien. Dad goes to the bank and then gives the Elders their money. More about this later as we haven’t delivered the money yet.
Today was our shopping or Marche’ day. We went to 2 stores that were like grocery stores; don’t picture an Albertsons in Northwood more like a grocery store you would find in the heart of Santa Ana. We bought some pork chops to make for the Elders. Mom cooks for the Elders every p-day which is tomorrow. Why we went to 2 stores is one had better meat products and one was cheaper for the everyday type things.
After the grocery stores we went to pick up the mail and it was very exciting because there was a piece of paper in the mailbox that said that we had a package! Carrie had sent 2 packages together on the same day and it said “Box 1 of 2 and box 2 of 2” Well box 1 of 1 arrived about a month ago. Box 2 came today! It was very exiting! When they pick up the box they have to pay a handling fee and a customs fee. The handling fee is kind of like a rental or service charge for accepting the box, kinda like you are paying mailboxes ect. The customs fee is supposed to be a fee that the government takes for importing the goods to the Congo. The first couple of boxes Mom and Dad received the guy wrote it down in his ledger. The last couple he just smiles and says, “The minimum” and he doesn’t write it down. Wonder where that goes?
Next came the GRAND MARCHE! Boy oh boy was it GRAND. There was TONS and TONS of aisles. It was somewhat Pikes Market, somewhat swap meet, somewhat garage sale, somewhat Goodwill clearance but all on an Africa level. It had close aisles and aisles of fish, ell, veggies, and chicken right on the counter. It was all good at the beginning. After about 30 minutes, I was getting sick and needed some fresh air. We walked out and I went to go take a breath of fresh air, only to find a HUGE pile of garbage. More on the garbage later….
Have you ever wondered where the items go that are never sold at Goodwill? Wonder no further, they have a happy home here in Africa. There are so many (beaucoup) people selling these type of things. Dad isn’t sure how they get here or who is the middle man is but that is where they get a lot of their clothes. It is funny to see what we are used to being on girls on these manly boys. At our FHE from the first night, the little boy who was Denim’s age, had purple tights with pink flowers. The 12 year old boy we taught yesterday had an LA gear v-neck shirt with gap overalls.
The Grand Marche’ had many aisles of this type of clothing. They also have a lot of hair places. Their hair is a big deal as there are so many beauty salons called coiffure. When I say so many, we are talking like how many doughnut shops are in Times Square, New York. We bought me a pair of sunglasses, Dillon a Congo soccer shirt, 2 fun clips for my hair, chicken (poulet), and ground beef.
The chicken and beef were bought inside a butchers shop. It was so clean compared to the outside aisles.
After the grand marchet’ we went to a visiting teaching meeting at one of the Relief Society councilors home. It is so cute to see Mom teaching what Visiting Teaching is. You know the saying, you need to walk before you run, well, the church here is learning to stand before they can walk…they are far from running. That is why Mom and Dad are here. They are teaching these sweet people the basics of the church. They never had primary till Mom got it started. She was so happy to see the church curriculum arrive with the primary sharing time outlines.
We just got home. Tonight’s dinner is BBQ chicken. I offered to help Mom but she told me to go work on the blog.
We just got home again. We were all set to have a nice relaxing night at home, anyone who can believe that, stand on their head. As I was finishing up this post, Dad said, the sunset looks like it will be a good one, let’s go to the beach to watch the sunset. Although they said it wasn’t that great of a sunset it was still a pretty picture!
The chicken and beef were bought inside a butchers shop. It was so clean compared to the outside aisles.
After the grand marchet’ we went to a visiting teaching meeting at one of the Relief Society councilors home. It is so cute to see Mom teaching what Visiting Teaching is. You know the saying, you need to walk before you run, well, the church here is learning to stand before they can walk…they are far from running. That is why Mom and Dad are here. They are teaching these sweet people the basics of the church. They never had primary till Mom got it started. She was so happy to see the church curriculum arrive with the primary sharing time outlines.Day 2
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Amy
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Training the Auxiliaries.
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Kriss Gates
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